Single, Married, a soon to be, current or future Father, Step Father, Brother, Foster Dad, Uncle, Coach, Grandfather, Male Guardian... whatever stage of life you are in, this is the spot for you. YOU ARE WELCOME!
Ungubani
So God created man in his own image...and the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. Gen 1:27, 2:7 NIV
In the movie Black Panther, Killmonger is escorted to King T'Challa demanding the throne, with requests that seem outrageous, until he is asked "Ungubani" - "who are you?". He responds with his chest out in confident boldness and declares his name and his fathers' name giving exercise to his blood right. It was the blood line that made the ridiculous request demanded bend to the weight of inheritance given by birth.
Sure, you may not be demanding the use of vibranium to defeat the enemies of those oppressed or fighting for the throne, but you have been created with the right, through the blood of Jesus, to approach the throne of grace with boldness. You were created to use your masculine inheritance granted to you by your Heavenly Father, God, to prevent/heal the oppression of generations and set the standard for the home. Don't believe me? According to the US Census Bureau, children living without a biological, step, or adoptive father (mentor)...
Man! You matter. You are our Kings, setting the standard of royal authority and mannerism based on the position and responsibility of being the first created. You were made with the super power to eliminate crime, poverty, incarceration, drug abuse, infant death and more. it doesn't matter if you are biologically dad, or someone who steps in as a teacher, mentor or coach. You presence as a male role model transforms lives. Remember who you are!!
Fellas and Fathers
A Father's Day Poem
To have and to hold,
Til death do us part
The love that unfolds
Through this life’s journey sparks
My preacher and teacher
My friend and provider
My rock and my leader
The improv for my smilin’
The mold of my imprint
Seasoned wisdom
Trickling since an infant
Dad, Father, Papi, Grandpa, Abba
Your words implant trace minerals of encouragement
and life in courage meant
I didn’t have to be afraid to flourish
Because you believe in me,
I am able to walk in purpose
Home in occupied stance have our hearts full
No vacancy
Coaching beyond my status quo fills me with excellence
Your legacy
I am proud of the man you have become
Though mistakes are made
You remain to be the shoes my life learned to dance upon
And in your absence,
I secretly untied your footprints
Slipping in five little piggy’s,
Beginning with the one who went to the market
With no intimidation
But amazed at the grandeur spaced between us who are Parallel yet opposites
I progressed Step 1 …
moving forward in the soul acquired strength you LEFT
And continue to leave
Step 2…
I advanced RIGHT
Into the path of integrity learned from vicarious study of you
Dad
Cognition pours memories of thankfulness
Overflowing my heart with gratitude
Your love, patience, forgiveness and lessons are my Cornerstone and fortitude
You are the direct cause that effects my life
The touch down to my goal
And as the seconds multiply into decades
The one gift that never grows old is
My appreciation of you
Happy Father’s Day
From here to eternity
Eternity to you
- Written by Jessica Poche'
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